National Society United States Daughters of 1812 GRAVE MARKING CEREMONY Honoring War of 1812 Patriot PRIVATE SAMUEL THARP (1796-1885

Samuel B. Tharp (Tharpe) was born on November 28, 1796, in Brunswick County, North Carolina, to Charles and Sarah Tharp. Raised along the vulnerable coastal lowlands of southeastern North Carolina. Samuel answered his nation's call during the War of 1812. He enlisted as a Private in the 3rd Regiment, 4th Company of the detached North Carolina Militia, a specialized mobile unit tasked with defending Cape Fear's shipping channels, inlets, and vital salt works against sudden maritime raids launched by the British Royal Navy.

Following his military service, Samuel returned home to fully build his community and family. In 1823, he married Susannah, establishing a long-term household in Smithville Township (present-day Southport, NC. Together, they managed a prosperous homestead and raised nine children - four sons and five daughters-leaving a deep, multi-generational lineage rooted permanently throughout Brunswick County.

A well-respected citizen and foundational pioneer of Southport. Samuel lived a long, impactful life, surviving the hardships of the era. He passed away on September 2, 1885, at the advanced age of 88 years, 9 months, and four days. He was laid to rest alongside his family at Bethel Cemetery, where his legacy of military service, endurance, and civic leadership continues to inspire his descendants today. 

Susan Palmer, Chapter President, gave the Opening Remarks at the dedication ceremony.

Rev. Bradley Huggins, Pastor, Bethel Baptist Church, presents the Invocation...

Cindy Sellersm Chapter Treasurer led the National Anthem durinng the Grave Marking Ceremony.

"Presentation of the Colors" Color Guard Detail

Presentation of the Flag of 1812

The Chapter expressed heartfelt gratitude to the following for making the Grave Marking Ceremony possible:

Richard H. Steward, Jr. American Legion Post 543

South Brunswick High School (SBHS) JROTC Cadets

Brunswick County Composite Squadron Civil Air Patrol Cadets

For providing combined Color Guard Detail, Firing Squad Detail, Ceemonial Bugler,and 1812 Flag Bearer.

Samuel Tharp was born November  28, 1796, in Brunswick County, to Charles and Sarah Tharp. Raised along the vulnerable coastal lowlands of southeastern North Carolina, Samuel answered his nation's call during the War of 1812. From his pension applications, we found he enlisted at Town Creek as a Private in the 3rd Regiment, 4th  Company of the detached North Carolina  Militia, which was a specialized mobile unit tasked with defending Cape Fear's shipping channels, inlets, and vital salt works against raids launched by the British Royal Navy.

At his enlistment, he was described as having black hair, blue eyes, fair skin and stood 5 feet 8 inches tall. Samuel was honorably discharged at Camp Deep Water Point which is near the present day Southport ferry landing and not far from where he was later buried. 

 Following his military service, Samuel returned home to build his community and family. Around 1820, he married Susannah Hewett in Shallotte, establishing a long-term household in Smithville Township which is present-day Southport.  Together, they managed a prosperous homestead and  raised nine children---four sons and five daughters-- leaving a deep, multi-generational lineage rooted permanently throughout  Brunswick County.

As an aged veteran, Samuel applied twice  for a federal military pension at the United States Pension Office in D. C., but was rejected on the basis that they had no record of his participation. However, he is clearly listed in the Muster Rolls of the Soldiers of the War of 1812 detached from the Militia of North Carolina in 1812 and 1814, in First Lt. John Bryan's unit in the North Carolina Adjutant General's papers published in 1851---just as he had sworn on his applications. Such was paperwork and communication at that time.

  Samuel's wife, Susannah, passed away in 1872, while they were living in their eldest son's household.    A well-respected citizen and foundational pioneer of Southport,  Samuel lived a long and impactful life, surviving the hardships  of the era. He passed away on September  2, 1885, at the advanced age of 88 years, 9 months, and 4 days. He was laid to rest alongside his wife and family at Bethel Cemetery, where his legacy of military service,  endurance, and civic leadership continues to inspire his modern descendants.

Carole Weiss, Becky DeSilva, Patricia Johnson, and Judy Caison. The four sisters who were proudly recognized the chapter members who are 3rd Great-granddaughters of Patriot Samuel Tharp.

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Unveiling of Veteran Marker by Descendants of Samuel Tharp. 

The Chaplain: Heavenly Father, we ask that you be present here today as we honor a Soldier of the War of 1812. Amen. 

 

Chaplain Linda Lashley gave the Benediction.

Miscellaneous photos taken before and after the Grave Marking Ceremony...

Ruth Rice and Kathy Miller

Gwen Causey

Commissioner Charles Gause Chapter #433 NSUSD 1812 Hosted a Reception at the Bethel Baptist Church in Southport, NC for the Guests of the Grave Marking Ceremony Held on October 24, 2026 at the Bethel Baptist Cemetery.

 

Chaplain Linda Lashley led a prayer before everyone gathered to enjoy a delicious spread that Kathy Miller single-handedly prepared for this event. Thank you, Kathy, from all the luncheon attendees. You are one amazing lady. 

The October 3, 2026 Daughters of 1812 Chapter Meeting

1812 (NSD1812) in recognition of her leadership in replacing the National Marker at the Deep Water Point Encampment Site, which the hurricane destroyed.  Mrs. Gwen Causey, NC Society Parliamentarian and Honorary Vice President National, and treasured friend to so many of us.  Gwen presented a program entitled “Unearthing Brunswick County Cemeteries,” which details her near lifetime of experience locating and recording ancestors’ graves.

Gwendolyn Clemmons Causey can trace her lineage on both sides of her family back to before Brunswick County, North Carolina, originated in 1764.  Gwen’s historical research began in the 1980s when she and her parents marked 300 abandoned cemeteries in the county by pen and paper, laying the groundwork for the county’s current system, which now recognizes more than 400 abandoned cemeteries.  Gwen has said, “I see it as an obligation that I have for the future and future generations… to see that this is preserved for them and to teach them respect for people and for property.”

In 2024, she received the Spirit of 1812 Award from the National Society, Daughters of Florence.  The original marker was erected in 2012 to commemorate the large encampment of volunteers from the Cape Fear in recognition of the 200th anniversary of the War of 1812.  Gwen continues to serve as Secretary-Treasurer of the Snap Dragon Chapter of NSD1812.

Below is the summary of Gwen's speech: So happy there is no limit to what you can post on our blog. Plus, now you have all the information from Gwen's speech to refer to. 

Looking For Old Grave Sites

Me, My Mother, and the Abandoned Cemetery Survey

It all began in 1978. That year, the North Carolina General Assembly established a committee to study abandoned cemeteries in North Carolina. A coordinator in the Department of Archives and History would guide the volunteer program. The survey would be conducted to determine the number, location, and condition of abandoned cemeteries. A final report was to be presented to the 1981 General Assembly summarizing the results and suggesting recommendations for new legislation that would preserve and protect these abandoned cemeteries. However, the deadline was not met in Brunswick County. It turned out to be a time-consuming project. Our survey was completed in 1983. 

What took us so long? Reasons include: 

• My fulltime job as a school teacher

• Only had the weekend to visit cemeteries

• Young children

• Recorded all cemeteries we visited

• Size of the county

• Lack of other volunteers

We visited our first cemetery on March 17, 1980. Over the next three years we met lots of interesting people, had some lively conversations, and found our way through dense forests and along farm roads. We met little resistance from neighbors of cemeteries. Once we told them the reason for the survey many would often accompany us to the cemetery and then overwhelm us with stories about the people buried there. 

My father took a map of the county and began to make the location of cemeteries that he saw as he traveled the county in his position with the Health Department.

 We divided the county into sections and would “be on the road every weekend.” We would stop at every country store and ask if anyone knew of a nearby cemetery. If someone at the next store repeated a location we had already heard about we treated the information as new. We wanted everyone to feel that they had been part of the survey. 

Brunswick County is covered in cemeteries from the Horry County border (Tharpe) to Leland (Leland Baptist Church Cemetery) and from the Waccamaw River (Wright Cemetery) to Southport (Old Smithville Burying Grounds). 

The closest cemetery is in our own backyard. And the farthest away is located on the banks of the Cape Fear River in Northwest, NC.

We found church graveyards such as Zion United Methodist Church, Mt. Olive Baptist Church, Johnson Chapel AME Zion, New Hope Presbyterian Church.

We found community cemeteries such as Prospect, Galloway West, Forest Lawn.

We found family cemeteries such as Mintz, Coleman, Elvington, and Hankins.

We found cemeteries owned by funeral homes such as Brunswick Memorial Gardens and Cape Fear Cemetery.

We found new family cemeteries such as Law, Clemmons, Russ.

We found cemeteries along the banks of rivers such as Coy Formyduval (Waccamaw), Green Banks (Northwest), Mouth of the Juniper (Waccamaw).

We found cemeteries encroached by farming (Stanaland, Mt. Pisgah).

We found cemeteries with Civil War soldiers (Hezekiah Milliken, Nathan Edwards, Daniel Vereen, Anthony Clemmons, Christopher C. Little and a marker for Captain Oliver E. Mercer who was killed at Gettysburg and whose body is still there.)

We found cemeteries with Revolutionary soldiers such as Simpronius Russ in the Old Burying Grounds in Southport.

We found cemeteries with War of 1812 soldiers such as Samuel Tharpe in the Bethel Cemetery in Southport.

We found cemeteries that had been relocated such as the Drew Cemetery which was moved in March, 1954 from the Sunny Point Army Terminal to a site near Orton Pond.

We found the Skipper Cemetery in Maco where Isaac William Skipper, the assassinated sheriff is buried.

We found cemeteries destroyed by developers (yes, back in the 1980’s this was happening) such as the Phelps on Stone Chimney Road in Supply, NC.

We found, perhaps the most written about cemetery in the county. On Hale Swamp Road is the Gause Family Tomb. Today the family has restored the site and recently PBS Television made a video for a program.

We found cemeteries of historical significance such as Orton, Lilliput and Rice’s Creek.

We found cemeteries known by 2 names such as Lehew/Chapel Hill, Galloway/Swain, Brooks/Parker. 

We found cemeteries located on land belonging to timber companies such as Johnson, Gilbert, Potter, Woodside. The forest service personnel were very helpful with locating these cemeteries. Every time a new one was located they would call us immediately. 

We found cemeteries that had been encroached upon by neighbors. One family, when informed, reclaimed the cemetery, cleaned it up and made it visible to the public.

We found the County’s Potter’s Field, those moved to the widening of Highway 17, the Catholic Church and the site of Joe Baldwin and the Maco light, graveyards where churches once stood, a row of 24 markers for people moved from a family cemetery to a church graveyard, and graves covered with bricks and seashells.

We found cemeteries of historical significance and abandoned cemeteries where families had come together to reclaim and restore (Beaverdam).

We photographed unusual grave sites and tombstones. Soon, we realized we were going to uncover some pieces of history that had been forgotten. And we were told about some we could never find, such as Ludlum (Ash) Swain on Midway Road.

The cemetery I get the most calls about is the Williams Cemetery near the Lockwood Folly Bridge on Highway 211 headed from Supply to Southport. From the highway it is difficult to see the entire cemetery and it looks like it’s being encroached upon. 

The grave markers also reveal the history of an area in a number of ways. Graves have been found in small family plots dating back to the 1700s long before the establishment of area churches and community cemeteries. Several small wooden markers might be for those who died from influenza. In Prospect Community Cemetery there is a row of 9 graves for one family. Located in the Smithville Burying Grounds is a marker erected by the citizens of Southport remembering lost pilots—five were lost on the MARY K. SPRUNT and five were Cape Fear pilots who drowned on December 11, 1872.

My 2 favorite cemeteries are located on the edge of the Green Swamp near the border with Columbus County.

One of the most interesting stories is about the David Spivey Cemetery on Myrtlehead Road going from Exum toward  the Waccamaw River. He told his family that when he died he wanted to be buried so far back in the woods that only the deer and the bears could walk across his grave. They fulfilled his wishes and today his gravesite is accessible only by a long narrow dirt, timber company road. Two of his family have now been buried beside him. 

Anson Nichols (1901-1936)  is buried in Camp Branch Baptist Church Graveyard. On his tombstone is the following epithet: 

 “When you are passing around my grave, stop and see as you are now I have been.

  As I am now you will be, prepare for death and follow me.”

As a result of the information-gathering program the state’s criminal and civil statutes pertaining to burial sites have been strengthened. They protect abandon public cemeteries from the threats by urban development, agricultural activities, lumbering operations, vandalism, and neglect. 

The idea behind the survey is protection and preservation of abandoned cemeteries. As an outgrowth of this survey more and more communities are undertaking the upkeep of the old cemeteries as a community project. 

One aspect of the survey was to record vital statistics from the cemetery. That is, to list the name, latitude and longitude, all dates and any interesting epithets on every tombstone in the cemetery. Also, account for wooden markers and unknown gravesites. This proved to be an insurmountable task for us. It was time consuming and arduous. In fact, we were unable to complete this part of the survey. In the smaller cemeteries, we were able to do this.time-consuming And, some of the well know cemeteries had been catalogued by researchers and we took advantage of the survey conducted by the Works Progress Administration (WPA) in the 1930s and 1940s.

The Abandoned Cemetery Survey has permanently preserved historical, genealogical, sociological, demographic, and cultural data contained in abandoned or otherwise not-cared for cemeteries.

Today, the US Genweb website and the Brunswick County Genweb website have a list of the cemeteries and their online transcriptions. The GIS also has a listing of the locations of cemeteries.

The goal was to map each and every cemetery in the county, and at the beginning we had no idea how many there would be. In August 1983, we had compiled 302 survey forms. Today, the number of identified and reported cemeteries is closer to 400, as more abandoned gravesites are located and we hear of more new cemeteries being formed. 

The survey was fun and exciting. My 2 young boys and 2 nephews were excited to go along with us on our numerous trips. Besides riding in the back of the pickup truck, they were explorers and delighted in finding a cemetery long forgotten and covered with bushes and small trees. 

Data compiled in the North Carolina Cemetery Survey is available in the Search Room of the North Carolina State Archives.

Just recently, a copy of one of the cemeteries we recorded was sent to me to use in a case involving a sand mine permit the community was objecting to. Guess what? It was one of the surveys we did many years ago.

The phrase "Follow the North Star: Honoring Our Military" represents a commemorative theme and challenge coin initiative used by state societies of the National Society United States Daughters of 1812 (N.S.U.S.D. 1812).

President Palmer presented guest speaker Gwen Causey with this coin as a thank you from our chapter.

Thank you Suzanne Palmer and guest speaker Gwen Causey for the information provided in this blog post.

Caron Myer's 1812 Patriot William Smith Sr.

 

William Smith Sr., who was born on March 16, 1765, in Liberty County, Georgia, was my  4th Great-grandfather on my mother’s mother’s father’s side. But he was also related to my father. In reality, my parents were third cousins, something they never knew when they were alive. So, when doing my genealogy, things do get a little complicated at times. 

So, who was William Smith? William was a Private in the American Revolution and in the War of 1812. He was granted 287 ½ acres of land in Washington County, GA for his Revolutionary War service in 1786. Washington County became Ware County. William was also a Justice of Interior Court of Ware County, GA. 

He moved to Appling County, which in time became Clinch County in 1822 and settled on Red Bluff Creek, where he brought his large stock of cattle and began farming. Clinch County was named in honor of General Duncan L. Clinch, a brave soldier in the War of 1812 and the Florida Indian Wars of 1836-1838. 

During the War of 1812, William served in the 1st Regiment of the Georgia Militia , which played a significant role during the War of 1812 as they defended American interests against British forces and their Native American allies. I also found that he played a fife for his regiment. I find that interesting, since I, too, play the flute.

However,  William’s real occupation was that of pioneer minister in the Primitive Baptist Church. He along with several of my other relatives, like the Tomlinsons, the Parishes, the Howells, the Hardemans, the Lees, the Lightseys, the Morgans, the Monks, the Zeiglers and others moved from South Carolina, or North Carolina.  Many of this group came from Barnwell, SC and migrated en masse. The Hardemens came from far away Virginia. After the Revolution they migrated to Georgia, where they had been given land or received land through a lottery system. 

These people were not rich, although if you trace their lineage back a few generations, and find came from families that were fairly well off. But in Georgia they had one room log houses with hewn floors and wooden shutters for windows. There were blazing pine knots in the fireplace that served both for light and heat. And even in the summer when Georgia is hot and muggy with lots of flies, they still had hot fires in the fireplaces to get rid of mosquitoes. According to historian Judge Folks Huxford, these people were honest and hospitable and had, “the kindliest disposition to each other.” 

At the time, many of the counties in Georgia were large and as time went on, they were split apart to form other counties. Lowndes County, which is home to Valdosta, was a much larger county. But, eventually several surrounding counties were cut from it like Clinch, Echols,  Irwin, Ware, Coffee and Appling. 

William Smith married twice. The first wife was Miss Mary Platt. They had four children. After the death of his first wife, he married Neter Stephens, whereby they had eight children, including a son, Manning Smith, who grew up to be an Inferior Court judge in Valdosta. He married Elizabeth Tomlinson and they had several children, including my great, great grandmother, Sarah or Sallie Smith Howell, who died in Dunedin, Florida, where I was born.  After Eliabeth had died, Manning moved to Florida where he is buried in the Mount Zion cemetery in Hernando County in what was previously called Fort Dade.

I’ve spent a lot of time going to all of the cemeteries in South Georgia. Depending on the time of year, you have to wear snake bite boots and carry a machete because the Eastern Diamondback Rattlers and the Cottonmouths are prolific. This area is also very close to the famous Okefenokee Swamp, one of the most extensive areas of submerged land on the North American Continent. 

In doing my family research, I found it interesting how much the county lines of Georgia moved over time. And even the state lines moved. Some years, I find these family members in the Georgia archives. Other years, they were in the Florida archives. And while they never moved from their homeplace, they managed to live in five different counties and in two different states. Talk about hard work for a genealogist! 

At the time William Smith and family moved to South Georgia there were forests of giant trees everywhere and wild game was in abundance. No such wood is found there today. The timber industry is one of the largest employers of that area. One particular family Howell gravesite was purchased by a large timber company. My third cousin told me he remembered the day they came there with large machines, turning all the graves and headstones under. Eventually saplings were planted there. Today, it’s a pine forest. 

There were also Indians. Creek or the Seminoles lived in the area before the white settlers arrived. In 1836, many small towns had stockades built around  and inside the fort, small homes were built. 

Of course, between the intentional burning of the Cinch County courthouse in 1856 by a resident who wanted to win his court case and the American Civil War where General Sherman destroyed everything in his path, records in Georgia are difficult to find. After the Civil War, the area was desolate. Rebuilding was slow. A good reference point is this: In 1860, the tax value of the land in Clinch County was $1.3 million. By 1868, just eight years later, the value of all the land was $445,000. It took until 1915, 50 years after the war, for the tax value to be just over $2 million dollars.  

I will say this. If it were not for the valiant work of Judge Folks Huxford who interviewed everyone he could to protect the area’s history, shy of a few family Bibles, there would be no history of South Georgia. He published many books in the early 1900s, like this 10-set edition of the Pioneers of the Wiregrass and several county books. Today, for those searching for South Georgia records,  the old school in Homerville is now the Huxford library. It houses family records and all that Judge Huxford collected, including all of his hand-written notes. 

Information provided by Caron Myers.

Book Summary - The Burning of the White House

The Burning of the White House 

Book Summary — Jane Hampton Cook 

Summary 

In The Burning of the White House: James and Dolley Madison and the War of 1812, historian Jane Hampton Cook recounts the British invasion of Washington, D.C., in August 1814. Using firsthand accounts and multiple viewpoints, she explains the military and political missteps that left the young capital vulnerable, the defeat of American forces at Bladensburg, and the British march into Washington. During the occupation, British troops burned major public buildings, including the Capitol and the President’s House, forcing President James Madison, First Lady Dolley Madison, and other officials to flee. 

Cook presents the crisis through the experiences of American and British leaders, soldiers, civilians, and the presidential family. Dolley Madison emerges as an important figure for preserving national symbols before escaping the city, while James Madison struggles with the responsibilities of wartime leadership. The destruction humiliates the United States, yet it does not end the war or break the country’s resolve. Instead, the disaster becomes a test of national endurance, followed by rebuilding and renewed determination. 

Key Events and Figures 

James Madison: The president faces military setbacks, political pressure, and displacement during the attack. 

Dolly Madison: The first lady helps protect important national objects before leaving the President’s House. 

Battle of Bladensburg: The American defeat opens the route to Washington. 

Burning of Washington: British forces occupy the capital for about twenty-six hours and destroy key government buildings. 

: Americans confront their vulnerability, rebuild the capital, and continue resisting Britain. 

Major Themes 

The book emphasizes leadership under pressure, the consequences of poor preparation, the human cost of war, and the power of national symbols. Its central message is that the burning of Washington was both a grave failure and a defining trial: the capital was devastated, but the country’s institutions and spirit survived. 

INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT DOLLY 

Dolly was called the Queen of Hearts because she was so loved. She had tea parties on Wednesdays, and anybody could attend; the President would stop by and chat with the attendees. 

Dolly had a pet parrot known for attacking guests. Neighborhood children from poor families often watched it through a window at the Octagon House. Their circumstances inspired Dolley to establish an orphanage, now known as the Hillcrest Children’s Family Center. She was the first president’s wife to found a charity. 

OTHER FUN FACTS 

The Navy tried to fire a torpedo, but it failed. 

A woman with long hair pulled up to the president's house and threatened to cut off her hair and hang the president with it. (The first crazy woman.) 

The book summary was provided by Librarian Joan Hall at our Saturday, October 3, 2026 - 1812 meeting.

 

Grave Marking Ceremony to Honor War of 1812 Patriot Private Samuel B. Tharp on October 24, 2026

                                                       Grave Marking Ceremony  

                                                                     Honor War of 1812 

                                                        Patriot Private Samuel B. Tharp

                                                                         1796–1885                                                                                 Saturday, October 24, 2026 | 10:00 AM

Bethel Baptist Church Cemetery
       5789 Bethel Road, Southport, North Carolina

On Saturday, October 24, 2026, Commissioner Charles Gause, Chapter No. 433, North Carolina National Society Daughters of 1812, will conduct a grave-marking ceremony in memory of the War of 1812 patriot Private Samuel B. Tharp (1796–1885). Tharp served in the Third Regiment, Fourth Company, Detached North Carolina Militia.

The ceremony will take place at 10:00 AM at Bethel Baptist Church Cemetery, 5789 Bethel Road, Southport, North Carolina. During the ceremony, the National Society United States Daughters of 1812 will dedicate a bronze War of 1812 veterans’ marker at his gravesite.

Samuel B. Tharp was born on November 28, 1796, in Brunswick County, North Carolina, to Charles and Sarah Tharp. Raised in the coastal plains of southeastern North Carolina, he answered his nation’s call during the War of 1812 and served as a private in the detached North Carolina Militia.

Following his military service, Tharp returned home to Brunswick County. In 1823, he married Susannah “Susan” Hewett (1805–1872), and the couple settled in Smithville Township, present-day Southport. They raised nine children, leaving a family lineage rooted in Brunswick County.

Tharp died on September 2, 1885, at the age of 88 and was laid to rest at Bethel Cemetery. Four members of Commissioner Charles Gause Chapter No. 433 of the National Society United States Daughters of 1812 are descendants of Samuel B. Tharp.

The objectives of the National Society United States Daughters of 1812 include promoting patriotism and preserving and increasing knowledge of the history of the American people by preserving documents and relics and marking historic spots.

Private Samuel B. Tharp (1796–1885) 

                        

President Suzanne Palmer has indicated The blue regular grave marker is what would normally be used for someone who did not serve in a military unit. Since Tharp did, we are using the new veteran marker, which will be blue enamel. 

Wreaths Across America - Deadline to Purchase Wreaths is Dec. 2, 2026

 

We are now in the countdown stage for the Wreaths Across America ceremony on December 19, with only three months to go. The cutoff date for wreath sponsorships is midnight on December 2.

Last year, we began our 2026 campaign in December, but this year Wreaths Across America shortened the 2-for-1 sale program to just two weeks, which gave us much less time to encourage wreath sponsorships. Our chapter members have generously donated at one of our three yearly meetings, and that support has made a meaningful difference.

As we get closer to the deadline, we ask General Guase 1812 members to consider sponsoring a wreath—or sharing the opportunity with family, friends, or others who may wish to help. If you know someone who would like to sponsor one or more wreaths for our organization, please have them contact Phyllis Wilson at par4wilson@gmail.com. She will be glad to provide the information needed to complete a sponsorship. For additional information on purchasing wreaths, click on the Wreaths Across America tab at the top of the blog on the right.